Are you ready?
Are you ready?
Come on, tell the truth!
Are you ready for love?
Seriously..
Honestly, please tell me!
The man said, “Yes, I am!”
Are you sure?
I repeated-
Are you sure?
“Yes!” He said again.
Okay, I am so excited to lead you the way.
Come on, follow me!
“Oh, one last thing…”
“In case, you are not ready for it.”
“As you walk through this door, it will beep to detect if you are TRULY ready.”
“Ready?” I asked.
He hesitated, “What do you mean?”
“Look at the sign!” I pointed to the warning sign.
The following behaviors are NOT allowed behind this door of LOVE!
Manipulation
Gaslighting
Deception
Controlling
Anger
Resentment
Blaming
Cheating
Non-committal
Jealousy
Codependency
Drama
Chaos
Relational fears
Abuse of any kind
Wounds from the previous relationships
… etc.
“Hey, are you ready? Look at the line behind us!” I said.
He took a deep breath and said, “I am truly ready! I have healed myself. I am excited. Let’s go!”
Yay!
It is our responsibility to heal our wounds to be a well balanced “whole” person before we can love someone else.
As long as we can be honest with ourselves, we can be our own love detectors.
Agree?
～ Love you more ❤️
Kolline