One month ago I received a call, the client came from my YouTube channel.
He scheduled the call then he postponed for another two weeks.
I saw his hesitation reflecting in my email inbox.
Tom, a 55 year old man who lost his lifetime partner in 2020.
Tom:
“I love your videos but I hesitated in reaching out to you. I lost my wife last year. We had a very good marriage.”
Me:
“I am sorry to hear that. How can I support you?”
Tom:
“Do I deserve love? My friends said that’s betrayal to my late wife.”
Me:
“Of course you deserve love. If you didn’t believe it, you wouldn’t be on this call.”
Tom:
“I am ready to look for my next partner. One more thing….”
Me:
“Yes.”
Tom:
“I have cancer but people with my diagnosis can live up to another 15 years. Do I still deserve love?”
I paused.
I took a deep breath.
I seek guidance from higher power.
Me:
“Yes! You do. No one knows when life will end, people die everyday.”
After being on Christian Mingle for one month, he had his first date and second date with a lovely lady.
She is fully aware of his medical diagnosis.
They’ve scheduled a third date.
We agreed “honesty” is the best policy.
Everyone deserves love.
Agree?
～ Love you more ❤️
Kolline