He shattered my soul!
He shattered my soul!
I’ve had enough!
It’s getting so ridiculous.
Recently,
A few men I dated.
I said goodbye..
To them.
Due to incompatibility
Or
Irreconcilable differences
Whatever the reasons.
Then,
The funny thing was..
After I gave them my reasons..
They didn’t expect me..
To be human!
As if..
As a love coach,
I’ve lost the right..
To grief
To disappoint
To heal
As they believe-
I should switch to..
My coaching hat
In a second.
As they demanded..
To let them know-
The things they could improve on..
Moving forward.
From my professional point of view..
As a love, relationship & intimacy expert.
Why?
How cruel was that?
That I’ve lost the right to be respected as a HUMAN.
Let me state again…
I don’t “date” the men I “coach”
AND
I don’t “coach” the men I “date”
That’s a PERIOD.
Am I not human???
Do I have the right to heal?
Am I not allowed time to reflect?
In the midst of all these…
I couldn’t handle the ridiculousness of the demands…
So I replied with.
“Please respect that I am in the healing process. I won’t have the clarity at this time to answer your questions!”
Yes, I had to set a strong boundary to instruct them to back off..
At that moment..
I shifted more self love to me.
At that moment..
I felt empowered.
At that moment..
I allowed myself to be human.
At that moment..
I know how to take care of myself.
At that moment..
I showed them how to respect me FOR me.
Agree?
～ Love you more ❤️
Kolline